This came across me today and it hit me. You can say something that may come out of your mouth in 2 seconds but those words can be held onto by that person for years to come.
What you say to someone or what you do to someone can have a lasting impact on their life. If you don’t think about what you are doing or saying, if you don’t take the time to sit and think of the outcomes for other people, if you just do and only think about yourself you are going to do more harm and destroy more people then is needed. You can’t make the world a better place for the next generation if you just tear down the one you are in.
If you take the time to become a better person the world around you will become a better place. You will raise your children to be better people because they look up to you. They see how you treat others and they act the way you do.
Children are the greatest humans in the world. You get to raise another human to be kind, caring, loving and all around amazing. When you see mean people, horrible people you understand it’s because they weren’t raised right or somewhere along the line they didn’t correct the behavior or get them the help they needed.
This speaks volumes. When you start to learn that normal people don’t go around destroying others. It wasn’t you, it was them. You were just in their path. Maybe she destroyed him so much that he didn’t know what it was like to be truly loved. Maybe he needed to go back to that trauma because it felt more comfortable, more like home instead of growing and having someone who actually cares and actually loved him for him. It has come very obvious I will never get what I need but that’s ok.
Off to explore today but I hope everyone has a great Sunday!